Published: 12 May 2025
Last updated: 12 May 2025
Since October 7, 2023, I have had the opportunity to run many listening circles, both for Jewish communities, and with Palestinians, Jews and others. They offer an atmosphere in which people can honestly share their experiences and feelings, without fear of judgement, criticism and debate. The circles often enlarge a personal position, encourage unity, empathy, acceptance.
Working with a multifaith/cultural educational organisation, I have also had a unique opportunity to talk with Jewish students from all over Australia. As such I have come to see first-hand the trauma and fear that has taken over my community, and in the face of that trauma, how the vast majority have hunkered down, reaching out to their own, filled with a certainty and conviction that Israel is doing what it must against a world bent on her destruction.
The prophetic tradition
When we faced our own historical destruction, the prophets from our Tanach, frequently broke the status quo and confronted authority in their communities. They were often called to proclaim a message arguing that people were straying from the path set down by the Torah.
They also were frequently called to challenge the apathy of people and to insist that they take a more pro-active stance in reforming social structures to achieve a situation where equality, justice and peace would prevail.
The prophets knew that self-reflection and looking at the part that we have played to contribute to our destruction, was fundamental to our principles. They did not point at the ‘enemy’ and bemoan their lot; they held a mirror up to their own people and forced us to consider what we could do better.
What has become very evident to me, is how difficult it is to show compassion to the other, to the ‘enemy’. When I spoke of my heart break that 40,000 people have died in Gaza, I saw eye rolling, exchanged glances, heads shaking in denial. I saw that it was controversial to think about the other, as if compassion for Gazans somehow lessens one’s own experience of fear, trauma, prejudice. That it diminishes support for Israel, is dangerous, even treasonous.





Comments3
Ruth Eckstein9 June at 11:53 pm
Many thanks Donna.
Your words of supporting all humanity pave a road towards a more harmonious and peaceful future.
We can only pray that it is soon realised.
Louise14 May at 01:32 am
A heartfelt and brave article. There are so many people that can’t see the other as fellow human beings with feelings and thoughts just like them.
John Balint14 May at 01:27 am
Well done Donna. This approach is the only long term solution. We can’t keep banging our heads against a metaphoric brick wall.