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They didn’t come to kill just people. They came to kill Jews

Expressions of sympathy that avoid dealing with antisemitism are flip niceties that will not create change.
Karen Mahlab
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A man walking with a surfboard, swimmers and sunbathers on the beach beyong a row of bouquets

Beyond the floral tributes left by mourners Bondi beachgoers return to surfing and swimming (DAVID GRAY / AFP via Getty Images)

Published: 18 December 2025

Last updated: 18 December 2025

“I have no words” is in many of the many messages I have been receiving from Australia and from around the world. The words are appropriate because many of us have no words to describe the flow of liminal emotions passing through our systems as we mourn the dead and injured and as we process what the events at Bondi beach mean for the way we live as Jews in Australia. 

The thing is that there are words to describe what happened: people were murdered, assassinated, slaughtered, mowed down, terrorised, targeted, terrified, hurt, killed, maimed. There are words to describe the victims: they were Jews, Jewish people, rabbis, and they were celebrating a Jewish festival: Chanukah. 

I am finding that the media, many organisations and people expressing their shock and horror do not mention the words above - especially the word Jew or Jewish. Even antisemitic is absent sometimes. 

Words matter

I am a publisher, media owner, a humanist and a Jew and I find that each article that espouses generalised platitudes about humanity is insufferable at this point. It negates the individual human experience and the very real stories of each person's experience and suffering as a result of the Bondi massacre. 

It's also dangerous. Dangerous because it allows the writer and reader to slip away from the very difficult task of embedding in our emotions and psyche the devastating nature of what has occurred. What's written are flip niceties and they mean many people will just move on rather than addressing the deeper issues we must face - the growth of antisemitism and racism in our Australia. 

Imagine one in twenty being slaughtered at Carols by Candlelight. That's relatable. 

Shock waves ripple out from the epicenter: Jews, beachgoers, Police and emergency, Bondi residents, Sydneysiders, Australians, world Jewry, other minorities, the world. People reading or relating will experience this terrible slaughter from their own specific point of view. But in order for Australians to really take on, stick with, and solve the antisemitism rising in Australia they need to be able to relate to it. To make real change we need to utilise the base human emotion of fear and embed it in others. What if this was you? What if this happened to your family?

We need words that describe to others the equivalence of what has happened. The equivalent is a massacre at the Christian celebration of Carols by Candlelight or the Hindu Diwali celebration, or the Muslim Eid. All are casual family events where the religious and non religious community members come with young kids, aunts, uncles, grandparents, parents, where there are bubbles, baby goats, donuts, ice cream and play. 

You can do the appalling numbers; 50 Jews killed or injured out of an approximate 1000 people at the Bondi Chanukka . That's one in twenty. Imagine one in twenty being slaughtered at Carols by Candlelight. That's relatable. 

As a Jew I have not been able to do much more these last days other than cry, meet with my Jewish friends and community, and wear a magen david for the first time in my life. Honestly, I do not feel like talking to many people who are not Jewish. But I know this will pass. I will (determinedly) feel safe again. 

For our thriving future we need many good non Jewish people to walk alongside us. Most of my world is non-Jewish. I have been overwhelmed and accept with grace the good wishes of the many wonderful non-Jews who have reached out. They should be our ambassadors. In my responses back to them I have been specific. I say I've been crying and that as a small community we all know people who have been affected. I hope that's relatable to them. Words matter. 

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About the author

Karen Mahlab

Karen Mahlab

Karen Mahlab AM, is a businesswoman, philanthropist, and social entrepreneur and was the founder and CEO of Pro Bono Australia, Australia's first online social sector publisher. In 2015, she was awarded a Member of the Order of Australia for services to the Not for Profit Sector and Innovation in Philanthropy.