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Under fire in Jerusalem

From the bomb shelter I make a note to self: host wild Purim party as soon as war allows.
Gadia Zrihan
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Israelis Brace For Response After Joint U.S.-Israel Strikes On Iran

People flee to a bomb shelter near Tel Aviv Sourasky Medical Center as Iranian rockets head for Israel (Erik Marmor/Getty Images)

Published: 2 March 2026

Last updated: 4 March 2026

It’s 6:30am and I’m trudging down the steps from our third floor Jerusalem apartment to the bomb shelter at the bottom of our building. It’s the fourth time the siren has gone off just since 9:30pm, and the alerts have been increasing in frequency. I barely get to sleep before having to gather my wits and stumble downstairs again.

Last night, my daughter and I made sure to leave our ugg boots and jumpers within easy reach. Somehow, I still managed to put mine on backwards. I’m getting exponentially more tired and it’s barely been 24 hours of war.

We got the first alert on Saturday morning while still snoozing in bed.  Our phones started buzzing incessantly with notifications from the Home Front Command app while we tried to make sense of why we were being awakened so rudely. The war had started with a pre-emptive strike by Israel and the US.

We made our way to our reinforced-cement shelter - it’s seen better days and is fitted out simply with some assorted chairs and an old couch alongside cleaning equipment and some prams from a bygone era. On the wall is a large child’s painting of a smiling, sunshine-yellow lion. The image is strangely welcoming, but also disconcerting, especially noting the name of this war - Lion’s Roar.

We shut the heavy metal door and bolt it.

The first few times we gather in the shelter, we share lively banter with our neighbors, catching up on news before being released back to our apartments, 15 minutes or so later. The neighbours across our landing have their daughter and her four-month-old baby staying with them while her husband is on reserve duty. The baby lightens the atmosphere.

But the more often we find ourselves together, the less need we have to talk. By the eighth time, we nod and smile, then close our eyes to catch up on sleep. My daughter has brought her books and ginger snap biscuits to share. I am in pyjamas and a cardigan without a bra. My hair has not seen a brush for a while. No one cares.

We’ve now gone up and down the stairs to the shelter so many times I’ve lost count. My daughter quips that her daily step count is going to skyrocket. Yes, I reply, “with emphasis on the rocket.” We try to make each other laugh. We watch Kung Fu Panda and break open the fancy chocolate box we were saving for a gift. I update my family in Australia with every siren. My Israeli friends send me gallows-humor memes and jokes. My daughter has asked to sleep with me in bed and I welcome it. We snuggle. Her presence helps me fall asleep between sirens.

I don’t know if it’s the lack of sleep or the stress, but my depletion is growing while my attention has narrowed. We have entered survival mode and though we seem outwardly the same, we are now living in a sort of arrested motion, on hold till the next siren or news item.

Our apartment has views across the hills of Jerusalem and we hear everything; the fighter jets zooming across the sky, the booms of missiles, hopefully in the process of being intercepted, the insistent buzz of alerts to be on the ready, followed by the sirens rolling across the city, broadcast on our phones.

Missiles have hit Tel Aviv and Beit Shemesh. There are fatalities. I read on the news that an Iranian missile warhead struck on open area a few hundred meters from Jerusalem’s Old City, narrowly missing some of the city’s holy sites. We are not far from the Old City and I avoid telling my daughter this news. I thought Jerusalem was off limits.

My daughter is busy baking hamantaschen, the traditional Purim cookies. In the festival’s story, set in Persia, the enemy is vanquished and the Jews are saved: a miracle of reversed fortunes. Many are leaning heavily into the parallels, but I am avoiding painting anyone as a saviour right now.

I don’t trust any of the governments making decisions in this war. My heart is always with the people who are the victims of the dictatorial and power-hungry battles being fought at their expense. Sometimes wars are necessary and unavoidable. But wars for regime change are rarely successful. You may cut off the heads of state, but what plans are in place for the future of the body?

I send my love to all the people of this region - the Iranians, the Jews, the Palestinians - may we all be granted peace and security and better leaders, humble, visionary leaders who do not slaughter their own people, who do not make war to hold onto power and who have the courage to forge a joint future for all in the region.

So many were looking forward to celebrating Purim this year after the heartbreak of the last few agonising years - some irreverence and fun, finally. Responding to trauma with the directive of simcha is, as Rabbi Sacks writes, “counter-intuitive and extraordinary. You defeat fear by joy. You conquer terror by collective celebration. You prepare a festive meal, invite guests, give gifts to friends.” Purim directs you to lean into the carnivalesque. Celebrations, parades, costumes, all night parties and raves, drinking to excess. It’s the closest thing the Jews have to Mardi Gras.

I was going to take part in the Adloyada, the big Jerusalem Purim parade, helping out with the moving parts of a giant Queen Esther puppet. I’ve seen some of the wild, beautiful, gigantic floats that people have worked on for months and months: a giant enchanted forest, a woven fantastical creature made entirely of natural materials, a Trojan horse carrying soldiers of love…if only it could have been sneaked into the city in time.

Now, these stunning creations won’t see the light of day, the kids won’t get to dress up, and no-one will get to party unless we experience another Purim miracle. Alas, miracles are not in frequent supply these days. In my sleep-deprived, zombie state, I make a determined note to self: host wild Purim party as soon as war allows. Miracle or no miracle, we will need a party after this.

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Gadia Zrihan

Gadia Zrihan

Gadia Zrihan is a freelance writer and editor who works in community engagement. She has a foothold in Israel and Australia and is currently based in Jerusalem. She is a storyteller at heart, interested in building bridges between communities and exploring notions of homecoming.

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