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‘Cry-baby antisemitism’: the resistance to Jewish voices 

When silencing is normalised, we lose what we all hold to be sacred: the right to be seen; to be heard; and to engage with one another.
Tamar Paluch
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Ruptured aims to defy the silencing of Jewish voices (Image: TJI).

Published: 29 September 2025

Last updated: 29 September 2025

“Cry-baby antisemitism.”

“Weeping about whiteness.”

“Infuriating, enormously selfish and delusional.”  

These are some of the comments that Ruptured, a book amplifying Jewish voices, elicits in 2025. They come from corners that champion ‘safe spaces’ and ‘cultural sensitivity’, yet drip with contempt for Jews.

“I'm broken, devastated and unable to articulate a sentence about these f^&*ers," says another. This is just a sliver of the vitriol sweeping Australia’s social and cultural landscape under the guise of social justice.

But, to echo a famous Australian chest-beater, “I don’t care, babes”. Let me explain. 

Together with my co-editor, Lee Kofman, 36 courageous Jewish women, and many others who supported the project, we brought Ruptured into the world to defy the silencing of Jewish voices.

Even before there was a war in Gaza, when Israeli women were mutilated and raped on October 7, the sexual violence used by Hamas was met by the silence of leading feminists and women’s organisations. The blood was hardly dry when the denials began, despite the footage that Hamas gleefully shared. And then it got confusing – some denied, some belittled, some decided that those women deserved what they got.  

‘Resistance by all means necessary’ and ‘From the river to the sea’ became sanitised human rights slogans in the West, which we Jews were accused of misinterpreting to dodge difficult discussions about the Israel-Hamas war. Wilful misrepresentation of people based on their assumed politics and a false definition of the Jewish movement for self-determination, Zionism, became du jour. ‘All Zionists are terrorists’ has been absorbed and normalised on the streets of Melbourne and Sydney, messaging that has been given moral valence in an age of disinformation.  

By sharing these stories, we appealed to the curiosity and humanity of the reader – in the intimate space of a book, where one doesn’t have to swear allegiance to groupthink as a condition of entry

When we launched Ruptured, something shifted. The book started to spark connections. Jewish readers, specifically women, shared that they felt validated and seen in the stories. Non-Jewish readers felt connected too. Many commented that they had never really understood what antisemitism felt like until they read this book; that they hadn’t fully understood the Jewish connection to Israel; that while most Jews identify as Zionists, they certainly are not terrorists. Finally, they asked, why were Jews in Australia being held responsible for the actions of the current Israeli government?

<em>Ruptured </em>features essays from 36 courageous Australian Jewish women (Image: supplied).
Ruptured features essays from 36 courageous Australian Jewish women (Image: supplied).

The essays featured in Ruptured are raw, authentic stories of how everyday life in Australia has changed for Jewish women over these past 23 months. These are not headline-grabbing tales; they’re the quiet struggles of everyday life. The mundane acts of going to work, sending kids to school or university, of creative life – navigating an altered world, where hate has been allowed to creep into cultural, social and educational spaces.

By sharing these stories, we appealed to the curiosity and humanity of the reader – in the intimate space of a book, where one doesn’t have to swear allegiance to groupthink as a condition of entry. 

The new reality, in Australia and globally, is that a very loud minority thinks they dictate morality. To the exclusion of any other world conflict, the litmus test of humanity has become the disavowal of Israel. It suits our detractors to portray us Jews as uni-dimensional and demand this conformity.

In bringing Ruptured to Australian readers, we chose not to seek anyone’s permission to speak, nor to be cowed by the hate sent our way

Dara Horn, author of People Love Dead Jews, explains that there is historical precedent for this. There is an eliminationist type of antisemitism – violent attempts to get rid of Jews – but there is also the conversionist type of antisemitism – the type that seeks to define Jewish identity for us, and make it fit into parameters that are palatable and conditional. This distortionary tale is as old as time. 

But it’s not only Jewish voices that this wave of moral policing seeks to silence. Everyday Australian perspectives are also sidelined. And what these ideologues really don't want Australians to know is that the majority do want to listen and seek nuance across many topics, and prefer civility to cancellation. 

So they hijack conversations and scare people into keeping quiet. Media outlets and venues alike shy away, citing backlash or security concerns. Social media posts about Jewish voices have the comments section switched off pre-emptively. Anyone who dares support the Jewish community becomes a ‘genocide apologist’ by extension.  

When silencing is normalised, we lose what we all hold to be sacred: the right to be seen; to be heard; and to engage with one another. And so, in bringing Ruptured to Australian readers, we chose not to seek anyone’s permission to speak, nor to be cowed by the hate sent our way – because the stakes are too high to stay silent.

Instead we have extended an invitation, a window into our lives. Peer in, and see us for who we are and how we define ourselves. Together, let’s reclaim the centre that is being swallowed by the extremists of our times.

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About the author

Tamar Paluch

Tamar Paluch

Tamar Paluch is co-editor of 'Ruptured: Jewish women in Australia reflect on life post-October 7', published by Lamm Jewish Library of Australia. She trained as an occupational therapist, with a focus on disability rights advocacy. Since October 7, she has been drawn back into the realm of Jewish community mobilisation and activism. She has lived in Israel and Australia and is currently based in Los Angeles.

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  • Avatar of Kim Lester

    Kim Lester2 October at 01:34 pm

    I am a proud , priviliged , white , Melburnian man who is not Jewish and thought this was one of the best places on earth for Jewish people until the anti Israel protests – my closest friends wish hell on Israel and Zionists. I do not share their views and understand the fear in Israel after surviving almost 80 years of continuous war from genocidally driven enemies. I cannot speak without being slapped down so I stay quiet.
    I can’t imagine how it is for a Jewish women
    in this town of lost dreams.
    I will have to read this book.

  • Avatar of Dan Coleman

    Dan Coleman1 October at 01:25 am

    Thank you, Tamar, for your beautiful invitation. And for your courage.