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How Dassi, Elly and Nicole survived Malka Leifer

A new documentary of the Leifer abuse scandal gives fresh voice to the three sisters’ individual and shared experiences.
Michael Visontay
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From left: Elly, Dassi and Nicole

From left: Elly, Dassi and Nicole (Image: supplied).

Published: 29 September 2025

Last updated: 29 September 2025

So much has been written about the Malka Leifer case.

The Adass community’s obstruction of justice and Kafkaesque campaign to extradite Leifer became an international scandal. Blanket media coverage left no aspect of her heinous behaviour unexamined. Shortly after the trial, Dassi Erlich released her memoir, revealing new layers of harrowing detail about her family background and the lingering impact of Leifer’s crimes.

So when I sat down to watch Adam Kamien’s upcoming documentary, Surviving Malka Leifer, I wondered what more could be said to add to our understanding of the sexual abuse the Adass school principal perpetrated against Erlich and her sisters Elly Sapper and Nicole Meyer.

One and a half hours later, my concerns had dissipated, swept aside by a piece of forensic storytelling and great emotional power. Kamien’s doco has three great strengths. First, it tells the whole story, from start to finish, in one tight narrative. Second, it contains a series of revelations that were not previously in the public domain, or had not received much prominence.

Third and most importantly, it presents the Leifer saga through the eyes and voices of all three sisters, equally. This is a singular achievement. Because Dassi Erlich was the first to speak out about Leifer’s abuse, hers was the central face and voice of the campaign, even after her sisters decided to speak out and join forces with her.

Kamien deserves credit for reflecting their individual and shared experiences. He has captured the nuances of their relationships (one sister observes that for all their closeness, they don’t hug each other), the differences in their personalities and the ways they have each been affected.

Sisters' abusive parents

An underlying theme is the crucial role their abusive family background played in the saga. Their mother abused them physically for minor infractions and regularly deprived them of food; their father was also “not a safe person”, Elly says. The children grew up living in fear of their parents, which made them vulnerable to Leifer’s predatory behaviour in the first place. They saw the Adass school as a safe haven, which Leifer exploited ruthlessly.

Surviving Malka Leifer shows us that justice is never neat, and closure lies in the realm of fiction, not real life. While the media and public move on, Leifer’s victims cannot do the same

Their isolation from the wider world, which was a feature of both their family upbringing and the school’s ultra-Orthodox values, exacerbated their vulnerability. They didn’t even know the words for female genitalia, former Victorian Premier Ted Baillieu, a close supporter of the sisters, reveals on camera.

Baillieu tells of how he accompanied Dassi to a meeting with Adass to ask Adass for an apology. The school used the advice of its insurer’s lawyer as an excuse not to give an apology at the time. It never gave her one.

By that stage, Leifer had fled to Israel, courtesy of the school’s support, where she lived as a free woman for more than a decade, during which she also abused other young girls in the ultra-Orthodox West Bank settlement where she lived with her family.

During this period, her supporters employed mafia-style tactics to intimidate the three sisters. Their older sister Dalia, who was a principal at an ultra-Orthodox school in Manchester, received a visit from two men from Israel. Dalia was told that if she didn’t convince her sisters to withdraw their police statements, her family would be ostracised. The two men met with her boss, and pressured him to fire her. Dalia refused to ask her sisters to back down. (Tragically, soon after this episode, Dalia started having chest pains and later died.)

The Adass network then flexed its political muscle: Israel’s Deputy Health Minister, Yaacov Litzman, a member of the Hasidic community, repeatedly intervened in the justice process to pressure a psychiatric panel to declare Leifer mentally unfit to stand trial and be extradited back to Australia.

When Leifer finally faced her reckoning before a Melbourne court, the sisters moved into an apartment together to give each other support. In this goldfish bowl, they speak candidly to Kamien about their raw feelings during the daily inquisition by Leifer’s defence lawyer.

Startling revelations

Here several startling revelations are made. Dassi admits, on Day 20, that it is the first time she has heard her sisters’ experiences in full. Up until then, only various parts of their stories were told, despite all their years of campaigning. But on this day, she finally heard what Leifer did to them.

It is at this point that Elly’s earlier cryptic comment about her father takes on a more sinister consequence. In a halting voice, she confides to her sisters a shocking suggestion that Leifer’s defence lawyer put to her when she was giving evidence.

When the jury finally returns its verdict on August 23, 2023, the case reaches its heartbreaking anticlimax. Leifer was found guilty on 18 charges of sexual abusing Dassi and Elly, but not guilty of abusing Nicole.

To the general public, justice was done. To the sisters, justice was incomplete.

Dassi tries to comfort Nicole: “She’s guilty. Full stop.”

Nicole: “But she did get a win. Her win was with me.”

Kamien shows us, in a way the media could not, how they try to grapple with their collective vindication and Nicole’s personal devastation. In victory, they must share new pain.

Surviving Malka Leifer shows us that justice is never neat, and closure lies in the realm of fiction, not real life. While the media and public move on, Leifer’s victims cannot do the same. Dassi, Nicole and Elly will always carry their invisible scars, but their courage will forever shine brightly.

Surviving Malka Leifer will be streamed on Stan on October 5.

EDITOR’S NOTE: The film was originally going to be screened at the Jewish International Film Festival ahead of the Stan release but due to a potential scheduling clash, JIFF decided instead to screen the film in Sydney and Melbourne in late September as part of its program launch.

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Michael Visontay

Michael Visontay

Michael Visontay is Commissioning Editor of TJI and was Editor-in-Chief from 2017-22. Michael is a former Assistant Editor of The Sydney Morning Herald and columnist with The Australian Jewish News. He has written six books, including Who Gave You Permission? with Manny Waks, and Welcome to Wanderland: Western Sydney Wanderers and the Pride of the West. His most recent book is Noble Fragments: the Maverick who broke up the world's greatest book (Scribe, 2024).

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