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My memory of Gloria Steinem

The death of the feminist icon reminded me of a fleeting exchange 30 years ago that gave me one of my biggest journalistic thrills.
Michael Visontay
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Gloria Steinem in New York in 2023 (Kevin Mazur/Getty Images/Ms. Foundation)

Published: 8 September 2026

Last updated: 8 September 2026

The American activist Gloria Steinem was remembered as “the personification of the women’s movement” who “galvanised a generation of activists” after her passing at the age of 92 last week. Hilary Clinton said she was “one of the architects of the entire structure of women’s equality”.

Born to a Jewish father and Presbyterian mother in Ohio, Steinem (raised a secular humanist) had a storied career in journalism and advocacy that challenged people’s assumptions about the roles and status of women in society.

She co-founded Ms magazine, exposed misogynistic practices while working as a bunny at Hugh Hefner’s playboy mansion, and started several women’s advocacy networks in the 1970s.

The international tributes have eulogised Steinem’s status as an activist but they glossed over her humility. I have a more personal memory of Steinem as someone who made time for people she didn’t even know. Thirty years ago we had a fleeting exchange that was one of my happiest experiences as a journalist.

Steinem on Greer

In 1995 I put together a special liftout for The Australian to mark the 25th anniversary of the publication of The Female Eunuch by Germaine Greer. As part of the project I asked prominent Australian feminists for their views about Greer and the impact of her book.

It was a strong list, including Quentin Bryce, Eva Cox, Dale Spender, Wendy McCarthy, Carmel Niland, Beatrice Faust, Linda Jaivin, and others. But I also wanted someone special, who had an X-factor beyond the usual local suspects. Gloria Steinem was an international A-lister.

I tracked down her address on the upper east side of New York, and wrote her a letter, asking her if she would care to answer half a dozen questions. It was the 1990s, before email and the internet. I sent off the letter, among several to Greer and other overseas figures, and went back to my work.

As the deadline approached for completing my liftout, I hadn’t heard from any of the overseas names – which is par for the course for these types of longshots.

Then, one morning, the day before deadline, a letter appeared on my desk from America. It was a reply from Steinem. Inside was my letter, covered in legible scribble, with a list of answers to my questions – together with an apology for the delay and the state of her handwriting.

I had my X-factor – and it was worth the wait, not just for her name but for her answers.  Here are a few:

How The Female Eunuch changed her life: “It helped me to be more daring, less self-doubting, more angry and less depressed.”

A question for Greer: “Is it possible that your attitude towards your mother is the source of your lone warrior attitude towards women as a group? And if so, isn’t that too great a penalty to pay?”

(This took on added poignancy when I later learned that Steinem’s mother spent most of her adult life in mental health facilities, which shaped Gloria’s sense of social justice about the problems women faced).

Favourite moment in feminism: “When Greer challenged [US talk-show host] David Sussman’s ridiculous drivel about female cycles by saying: ‘well, David, can you tell if I’m menstruating now – or not?’

There was more, primarily about male feminists (See the attached photo). Her small act of generosity gave a young journalist a huge thrill. I didn’t have time to send a letter of thanks. She didn’t need it. I’m sure those who knew her well saw this side of her too.

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When I looked through the avalanche of tributes for Steinem, one name missing was Greer’s. Unlike Steinem, who lived in the same brownstone in New York since 1966, Greer returned to Australia from England a few years ago as age started to creep up on her.

For the past few years the charismatic Greer, now aged 87, has been living in an aged-care home at Castlemaine, just outside of Melbourne. She is the last of the unholy trinity of 1970s feminism – Betty Friedan died in 2006, now joined by Steinem. Hopefully, Greer is living anything but quietly in her dotage.

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Michael Visontay

Michael Visontay

Michael Visontay is Commissioning Editor of TJI and was Editor-in-Chief from 2017-22. Michael is a former Assistant Editor of The Sydney Morning Herald and columnist with The Australian Jewish News. He has written six books, including Who Gave You Permission? with Manny Waks, and Welcome to Wanderland: Western Sydney Wanderers and the Pride of the West. His most recent book is Noble Fragments: the Maverick who broke up the world's greatest book (Scribe, 2024).

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